I've Learned

My Dad sent this to me- They're written by Andy Rooney , a man who has the gift of saying so much with so few words. Enjoy.......

I've learned.... That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

I've learned.... That when you're in love, it shows.

I've learned.... That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!' makes my day.

I've learned.... That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

I've learned.... That you should never say no to a gift from a child.

I've learned.... That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.

I've learned.... That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.

I've learned.... That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

I've learned.... That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.

I've learned.... That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

I've learned.... That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.

I've learned..... That money doesn't buy class. I've learned.... That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

I've learned... That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

I've learned.... That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

I've learned.... That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

I've learned.... That love, not time, heals all wounds.

I've learned.... That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.

I've learned.... That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

I've learned.... That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I've learned... That life is tough, but I'm tougher.

I've learned.... That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.

I've learned.... That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

I've learned.... That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one more time before she passed away.

I've learned.... That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

I've learned.... That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

I've learned.... That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.

I've learned.... That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it. I've learned.... That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

The Latest

Well its been an eventful week. I had all of my five trunk shows this past week for Chez Ami. It was not a total loss and I had an okay amount in sales, but only a few at each show and not a single one at my last one. Obviously not meant for me. I may come out even, I hope and probably will not be able to spend any to get my great discount! Now if only I can get the orders put in online that I do have, the system keeps kicking me off and not saving the work I have put in which is precious time right now! I am so frustrated with it! I am also spending the afternoon ironing and packing the over 100 items in my trunk to ship out to the next person which makes me nervous in itself. I am sad to say that I will just be glad when its all over with and everyone has their things safely! What was I thinking?

In the midst of these six shows this past week I ended up with Bronchittis to which my doctor said more than likely is pneumonia but we are not going to test for it now and hope that what he gave me works. So far things are going a little better but got a sinus infection on top of it so still not 100%. Thankfully, my parents came in Friday night and were able to be with the kids all day yesterday since I had two shows back to back. They gave me the luxury of taking a bath last night and sleeping this morning until 9! It was so nice and I feel so well rested! I had not slept the two previous nights due to anxeity about these shows as well as my medicine having the adverse effect on me. I should have known when it said may cause drowsiness on the side that it would not for me!!! Now I am just taking it during the day! Trent also got food poisoning at the same time which was bad for him and bad timing as well, thank goodness for my parents being here! He headed out with the girls for a tournament and seems to be doing better last I talked to him.

Well, lots of things piled up while I was under the weather and today there will be a lot of catching up. I just love laundry....... and to think I was totally caught up just two days ago! What a figment of my imagination it is to think I would ever be 'caught up' on laundry! There are so many little projects I had hoped to be finishing in the mornings after the kids are at school- what a joke! I am doing good just to get the house back in order after they have left and get cleaned up in time to go back up there for work! I guess the projects will have to wait for summer! I have a wall behind my armoire in my bedroom that still needs the stain to match the rest of the room, oh how that bothers me everytime I walk in there! I have O's dresser to paint and finish the hardware on it, and need to go through her clothes again so that she has all the right size in her drawers, then there is handywork that needs to be done. Some day.

I am SOOOO ready for spring! Actually, make that summer. I am ready for no school, lazy days by the pool, afternoon naps, and back to having my husband around. Its only been two weeks and I already miss him like crazy! I know I have said it a few times in this post already, but thankgoodness for my parents being here! Its so nice to visit with them but also to have some extra hands for this constant state of chaos! About every few seconds there is some type of an accident that leads to crying or fussing over who knows what.... they keep them busy and tend to one or the other and it just helps SO much! I actually drank two cups of coffee this morning as opposed to my usual half cup that I get in between interuptions or picking up. I wish we lived closer for so many reasons. My kids just eat them up! My mom is the best story teller EVER and their faces are just priceless during a story! The dynamics of their relationship, its just precious. They cling to them over me within minutes of them being here. Pretty neat for not getting to be with them real often. Well I am just going to milk this for all its worth and wish I could just keep them here!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for hanging on to all this babbling if you have made it this far. Sorry you had to witness my therapeutic blogging this time around......

P.S.- the look you probably noticed as some of Melody's work through Ashley. Our little blogging ring has benefited from her talent! She is just great and its neat to have see some of my personality on this page, I think she just nailed it. Also neat to make a new friend out of the deal! This blogging thing... so neat how it brings people into one another's lives and the encouragement and accountability it can as well. What a blessing.

That's a wrap!

first week of feb when Liv was sick and "needed daddy!"

K.... actually posted them! The pic of the kids was today after church and Ty took the last two of me and Liv, not bad for a four year old!!!

Monday & Tuesday- subbed in mornings worked the usual afternoons. Meanwhile laundry piles up!

Wednesday- turned 34, received several nice e-mails, several "goodies" from friends. I bought myself a starbucks and instead of taking my car in for a winter package and inspection that went out in December, went to TJ Maxx and just walked around looking for an hour and a half! Bought myself two shirts with some b-day money. Very enjoyable before rushing home to clean and then heading off to work. Kids had their first Valentines Party which lead to much crying after school with wanting to hold baloons and then one of them popping at home. They ate way too much sugar this day.

Thursday-surprised with a sitter while T took me to the country club for an incredible five course meal. Devine to say the least. It was nice to get dressed up and thoroughly enjoy a meal. Everything was so 'pretty'.

Friday-back to the grind of all that laundry that has been piling up all week! Made some chile and green chile cornbread for the cold night.

Saturday-took T to meet the men's team to fly to AZ. Met my friend Samantha at McD's for lunch and sanity. Took naps and even more laundry!!!

Homefront- still for sale..... no showings in several weeks- some days this has been a true blessing. No snow in these parts but VERY cold- just may take the opportunity for one last fire tonight after kids are in bed and hoepfully enjoy some silence.

Kids- Had a great week. Ty really enjoyed Valentines for the first year I think. His class had a breakfast instead of a sugar high party. Although they requested nobody bring valentines or sweets of any sort (instead fruits and b-fast items), we ended up with quite a few Wednesday, apparently I am the only person that took that seriously. So I took treats for his friends in his Thursday class. Olivia just came home with red on her shirt and face and wild from lots of sugar! I think this is a much more fun holiday when you have the time to stop and make it special for your kids. I have just been so tired lately and did not do a good job of it this year. O is really coming along in her vocabulary and T is doing great in school. He will be doing T-ball in April and if I can get my act together a minidribblers class with some friends from church. This has been a challenging time in their ages and the dynamics of their relationship. We have many fun sweet moments but now a lot more fussing than before. Ty actually hummed for four hours yesterday. He does not even know when he is doing it. I do. O is coming along with potty training but doesn't always make it. In time....

Tagged Again!

I think I have been tagged by three different people now over the past year to do this and just kept forgetting. I did a similar one a year or so ago but I have a few to choose from so it shouldn't be hard to come up with more!

1) Share 5-7 non-important things/habits/quirks about yourself. (2) Tag random people at the end of your post. (3) Let each random person know they have been tagged by leaving a comment on their page.

1. HATE feet. Even my own, but mostly other people's. I don't want to touch them or more importantly for them to touch me. In my last quirks post I also shared that they have to be clean, I wash them everynight before getting in bed. It has the added plus of warming me up!

2. Will go to great lengths to avoid using a public restroom. I just like my own. A friend's is better than public but still...

3. Hate onions, LOVE onion rings.

4. Cannot sleep on roadtrips or plane rides, even when EXHAUSTED!

5. Doing laundry and folding it has never bothered me. For some reason I do not enjoy putting it up. I will let it pile up in 'neat piles' and have a full hang bar before I will move myself to hang it up. I used to be better about this when we first put our house up, but now I just don't care anymore.

6. I get cold unless it is 85 or above. If there is a slight breeze, I get goosebumps. I carry a jacket with me at all times, even during the blazing hot days of summer!

7. I will sniff something that I already know is bad. For instance, curdled sippy cups. WHY do I do that?! Or items in the fridge that have been there a while.

I tag: April, Em, Lisa Lee, Summer Lashley, Amy Smith and Amy Davis!

Update:

TV sitation has not been SO bad. We are so busy anyway it has not been a big deal yet. I know that will change soon when T is away for tournaments.

We have ALL been well for FIVE WHOLE DAYS!!! Lets pray this trend continues, especially with so many out at school. I guess we were the forerunners of it all!

I have been busy getting my stuff together for Chez Ami. Its a children's clothing company that is available just two weeks each season. I will be doing 6 parties this month during the two weeks that I have the sample trunk. Check it out at http://www.chezami.com/ Very fun. Hope I can pull it off since its the first week my husband is away! I did not get to pick the weeks I receive it, obviously.

School is going well, I have been subbing in the mornings to make up lost time when my kids were sick. It has made for a busy tiring week though!

We get to go to Basketball games again tonight and Saturday. T is stating and we LOVE going to watch. LCU has some great teams this year and have made for some exciting games!

Enjoy your weekend!

God tugs in mysterious ways.....

Well this story begins several years back, almost 8 actually, when Trent and I were married. At this time I inherited a monstocity of a television from his bachelorhood. I absolutely hated it in our house in Lewsiville. When we moved here, my father-in-law built this beautiful entertainment center that is built into the wall around it which made me grow to love the mostrocity b/c after this it was part of the room and not so much of a monstracity anymore! The built-in matches the rest of the built-ins in our home because the builder gave us the doors and hardware to put on it and we painted it to match. This built-in actually 'makes' the room. Well the television is now 10 years old and died sort of three weeks ago. Actually it just wouldn't turn on while T was away at his conference. Well after three weeks of going back and forth with a guy that repairs 'on the side' we came to the fact that they no longer make this part that it would take to fix it. So.............

We went T.V. shopping. We were torn with what to do. We did not want to buy a specific t.v. to fit our built-in b/c our house is forsale and we hopefully will not always have it. It could work definately and would be an awesome t.v. We looked at several but just didn't 'feel' it. We both were a little excited the thought of a shiny new updated t.v. Also, our kids have been in our bedroom watching 'the other one' ever since and that is getting real old for lots of reasons. They are monkeys on our bedposts, we have had several falls. O gets into our bathroom if we walk out of the room, and our room is OUR room!

So we go to church yesterday. There is also a situation there where we are in a stewardship position with our church adding on to create more classrooms. We have been praying about that and how its all going to work, we are actually on the "Prayer Emphasis" team so this is a vital part. Okay, that being said, we are in class studying the minor prophets and it hits me what the theme is, which is also pretty much the theme of the entire Bible.........God is saying, "Worship ME................Worship Me......................Worship Me, Its NOT ABOUT YOU....Its NOT ABOUT YOU.......Its NOT ABOUT YOU over and over and over again. Then a class member makes the comment, "I truly belive that in order to reach true spirituality you can not be entertained." I think that was directed at being entertained by the world, your worship service and by society's material standard of living. Pretty deep.

Anways, T and I had both been pretty quiet since Saturday with all of this on our minds and then after class on the way to eat we both came to the same conclusion. Sort of neat how God does that. We decided not to replace the televison. That is money that could be spent elsewhere and time that should be spent with our family and changing our ways to be God focused instead. We also made the decision to get rid of the one in our bedroom.

This is going to be SOOO hard!!!!! We are not big watchers but do in the evenings and are starting to realize a lot more than we thought. I love having this as 'downtime' after the kids are in bed or when they are not here to watch my own stuff!!!!

I am not posting this to brag to say, "look how good we are to get rid of a material item"! I am not saying we will not ever own a t.v. again but for the time being we are not. I am posting this more to share how God is tugging at our hearts in a direct, really sort of wild kind of way. We were talking yesterday how other people deal with this. I had the "why us!" attitude I am ashamed to say! T helped me to see it as a blessing that God would tug in this way. I am sharing in order for others to see how God works in ways you may not even want to see and how its a choice really of how distracted you want to be. I did not think of myself as not wanting to be spritual. I also don't think that not having a t.v will make me spiritual, its what I choose to do with that time instead and my attitude towards it. THIS is where I need encouragment. Its also a little akward b/c I have only told one other person before this who is also a Christian and thinks we are real weirdos b/c of it! I don't want people to see us as going Amish or something but know when you come to our house you won't get to watch a show! The television that will remain in the built-in is there to help the house 'show better' not for actual usage, it doesn't work! Please still visit us though! Had our television not broken we would not even be at this point. The picture never went bad. No sign of anything going wrong. Just wouldn't turn on one day. That is very strange in the technology world. Do you think God has the power to take away our individual television set? I do.

GREAT Analogy

My friend MichaelAnn e-mailed this and I thought it was great. Also, added a few to my list in my last post, the questions just keep coming! O went back to the doc today and got a shot for the ears, all seems to be well for the moment. Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!

WHAT A GREAT ANALOGY OF GOD FOR THOSE WHO DON'T KNOW,
BY ROBIN WILLIAMS

This is one of the best explanations of why God allows pain and suffering that I have seen. It's an explanationother people will understand.

A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed.As the barber began to work, They talked about so many things and various subjects.When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said:"I don't believe that God exists.""Why do you say that?" asked the customer."Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn't exist. Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people?Would there be abandoned children?If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain. I can't imagine loving a God whowould allow all of these things."The customer thought for a moment, but didn't respond because he didn'twant to start an argument. The barber finished his job and the customerleft the shop. Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long,stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard. He looked dirty and un-kept.The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber:
"You know what? Barbers do not exist.""How can you say that?" asked the surprised barber.
"I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!""No!" the customer exclaimed.
"Barbers don't exist because if they did, there would be nopeople with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards,like that man outside.""Ah, but barbers DO exist! What happens is, people do not come to me.""Exactly!" affirmed the customer. "That's the point!God, too, DOES exist! What happens, is, peopledon't go to Him and do not look for Him.That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world."If you KNOW God exists, send this to other people--- If you think God doesn't exist, then just delete it!BE BLESSED & BE A BLESSING!"Do not ask the Lord to guide your footsteps if you're not willing to move your feet."

I had to add some more...

Why does this town have turn lanes the entire length of the street (which is also the entire lenght of the city) and no right turn lanes? If you ever are in the right lane you will be breaking non stop for the person who speeds up to cut you off and turn right. This is so messed up to me that there are no medians and very annoying. Was there a city planner who thought this was a good idea? Why?

Why does the wind blow 60mph for just two months out of the year and we have to live in dirt because of it? I am sure there is some type of scientific explanation for this one. Man do I hate the taste of grit and smelling like boy all February and March when the rest of the world is all spring like.

Why are mommies expected to be 24/7 regardless if there is a job outside the home and its just understood that men 'help' with their own children? I laugh about this often with friends, how we feel that we need to ask if they can watch them when something comes up for us but its just a given that we will be with them otherwise. I mean its really not babysitting when their yours is it? I never get a hard time about it from T and I don't know that he actually does something that makes me feel this way, I think its just how our society is.

Why are we scared to tell our hairdresser that we are not happy or that they did not get close enough to the roots and feel like we are cheating on them when we switch because of it? I know at least one other person who feels this way.

Why does whatever season we are in at the time seem to last forever with the exception of Fall that just flies by?! Could be b/c of the weather here in this crazy state.

Why do I get excited about things and sign up to do them and then when they get close I wish I hadn't and would rather stay home. I do this quite a bit actually.

Why do I get excited every time someone shows interest in our home that has been for sale for 13 months now and start looking again only to find the perfect one which I will see sold to someone else a month or so later? This has happened with three different houses now.

Why do the ugly ones in our neighborhood sell and for a higher price?

Why do I keep drinking coffee when it does absolutely nothing for me now, as far as giving me energy anyway?

Why am I still blogging when I have 45 minutes before I have to be at school and have still not had a shower?! Guess I will be not real put together today!

Okay I have come back to add a few more.... I thought I was going to be getting ready to go to work, but instead got a call to pick up O b/c she has a 101 temp!!! I went to get her and now will be here the remainder of the day which causes me to add a few more:

Why would a carseat company only make the seat cushion washable and not the straps?? O threw up on the way home and we took it completely a part and shoulder straps will not come out. They did on the carrier, do they think that kids past 24 lbs. don't throw up? We decided she is ready for the next step up and have been looking online, even the most expensive ones just say washable seat cushion!!!

Why on earth are some companies inclined to charge SO much more for a 'pretty seat' when others have the same safety ratings and are not $300?

Why has one member of my family or another been sick since October? We still have Spring allergies to look forward to! YES!!!! O has been to school only four days during the month of January!!!!! We have been in a pre-school setting since each of them were babies, never have we contracted anything other than ear infections or the occassional cold. What is different now? O was the only person in her class to get hand foot and mouth and then RSV two months later. It did not spread, thankfully, but it was just her!!!

Why do children seem to have radar for when their mother is either changing clothes or using the facilities and feel the need to be there for it? These radars also work for when she might be very quietlly getting a piece of chocolate!

Why do companies feel the need to package an item inside of a package? Don't even get me started on toys, but I opened a pkg. of paper towels the other day wher each one was individually wrapped, is this really necessary?

Why are the most frequent phrases out of my mouth, "GET OFF OF HER!" and "No!" ?

Why can I get more done after T is home, simply b/c of his presence than I can all day?! They seem to leave me alone when he gets home and allow me to be more productive. Of course the sickness factor makes them much more clingy. I realized this last night when I was making dinner, doing laundry and picking up all at the same time. Before that, no lie, there was some type of chotastrophe about every five minutes. T gets home, all is calm........

Why is Satan attacking our family right now? Does he think he will get us? Think again. All of this stinks but God is still well intertwined within us and things could be so much worse. Trent has a flexible of enough job to stay as needed for the time being and I have the luxury of working part time at a pre-school at this point in our lives. If I were anywhere else we would be in quite a bind. This is temporary and fixable things. I know we are going to be okay but please say some prayers anyway. My attitude is a constant challenge and although it may sound like sarcastic humor, I sometimes allow myself to be effected by it. God is good and I will praise Him in this storm.........

Back to Life, Back to Reality

Now let the whining and crying begin! It has, in full swing.

Trent and I had a wondeful four days together. Wednesday after school I had the luxury of coming home and enjoying a long hot shower and the bonus of painting my nails and putting lotion on! Thursday morning I had breakfast with a group of girls at Jennifer K's house and then onto school. After school I went to TARGET! I never do that. I spent some Christmas mulah on some sale items and new swimsuits! That night Trent stated basketball games so I went along to watch and was VERY entertained! Talk about some close games and they (girls and guys) went into double overtime and won against a highly ranked ! It was also nice to actually get to visit and watch the game! I go alot and take the kids and they enjoy it, however it is quite a different experience!

Friday was a little more productive with some laundry and that evening I had a girl's night out with the same group of girls from Thursday morning. I looked back and it has been two years since I was at the last one!!! We have seen each other since but an actual night out a long time! I had SO much fun! We spent three and a half hours at Cafe J, one of my local favorites. The food was delicious and the company was priceless! See Larissa's blog for pictures! Saturday Trent had to stat basketball games so I tagged along again, not as exciting as Thursday but wins none the less. We went out to eat that night and the restraunt was so packed that we got out of there late and chose not to go to a late movie with account of church being early in the morning. Also a different experience, I actually got to fill out the outline and take notes! Something of the past for me these days.

I thought I was going to be so sad when the left, but not so much! It was wondeful for all parties concerned. They had a wonderful time in the metroplex and LOVED the stockshow! They got to eat at lots of neat places and Pop took Ty to see Veggie Tales. The movie theatre is at the mall and it has the most beautiful large carosel there which of course they had the joy of riding as well.

I picked them up yesterday and Olivia screamed the first thirty minutes in the car. She 'needed' me. Ty had a sore throat and fever and it just has gotten worse from there. All of his cousins have had the same thing this whole week he was gone! He was up, as well as were we, the entire night last night and nothing we give him or do seems to be helping! Of course everytime I call first thing in the morning, they are already booked so he has an appt. for tomorrow! My MIL is coming over this afternoon to be with him while I go to school. We have missed so much this year for illness its beyond ridiculous and I just don't feel like I can call again!

I love my kids so much it hurts. It just makes me laugh, sort of, that there is no easing back into this- its full on whining and crying today after days of silence! Even Murray the dog looks at me like "What in the World??!" T and I milked it for all it was worth and now its back to reality! No more clean house or peace and quiet. It was exactly enough time though. They were ready to come back and I was starting to remember how it was before they were here, and although it was good, it was not complete! I could not stop staring at them through evening service last night. I have also been a little overboard on the kisses and O has even told me to stop! We will get through this illness like the others and the tattling, whining, crying, etc will all be regular things again. This morning coffee is already helping! Funny how much less I drank of it while they were away......

What a Week!

Well I think my little girl may be well and we are going to shoot for a sick-free week at school this week! Well, almost a week for the kids anyhoo. My sweet parents are meeting Trent in Abilene on Wed. to get them and take them back to Arlington for FIVE WHOLE DAYS! They have lots of fun things planned and I know they are going to have an absolute ball. They are taking them to the Fort Worth Stock Show and Rodeo, something I have fun memories of doing with them as a child and adult for that matter! I know they are going to love it and all the animals.

Trent and I are more than thrilled that we will all benefit from their time with Pop and Cita! We have never done this before, sent them both away and been at home without them! I am a little nervous, only that I will miss them a bunch.. as far as their care I know my mom and dad will probably be better than I could ever be! It is going to be SO weird... but very fun. We have lots of fun things planned as well! Mainly just being together and soaking one another up before the craziness of the Spring Season begins! This year is going to be twice as busy as last but the off season has been much better with Trent not reffing or stating as much, so I can't complain..... too much ;)

Being inside the house this entire last week about drove me over the edge. Our monstocity of a television has also been broken and pulled away from its built-in center causing an obstruction to the pathway as well as everyone on our bed in our room for any watching that has to be had! I let the kids watch their shows in there in the morning. Olivia is at the age where she is just into EVERYTHING! I mean, I walk out to load the washer, come back and she has everything drug out of every cabinet in my bathroom! Ty was never like that! He can just sit and watch a show, she has yet to sit through even one that is thirty minutes! Night and Day those two, just like their mom and dad!!!! Ty had been to several movies by the time he was her age, we are still scared to take her.

Speaking of movies, I had the sheer joy of spending a night with my friend Shauna last week. We went kidless to Bueno and then to see Juno. It was great, ALL of it! The movie was quirky funny and even a little jaw dropping big eyed funny at times, but overall..... very good. We always have such a great time together and its almost comical to embarassing how much we say, "ME TOO!" to have so much in common. I mean to the ridiculous point of famiy and in-laws, who also happen to be great friends and on vacation together at this very moment! She is just a precious person whom I have had the blessing of getting to know over the past few years.

Well the dinner bell is ringing...... I am letting T cook as he pleases while he is around to do it! Such a sweetie and really has been an incredible help while he has been home. I am getting spoiled and going to be all the more in shock when he is gone! Here is to a great week for everyone!

BTW, I want to see your favorites too at some point. I love knowing these things about friends so I can help make them to happen for you like Sweet Shauna and Larissa have for me with those GREAT DIET COKES!

On a more positive note.....

I just came from Jennifer B's and Jenni K's blog where they listed their favorite things and have asked others to do so as well. I decided it might be a good idea to focus on the positive today. I have done things previously somewhat like this but here is a new one!

1.Sitting in front of the fireplace watching a movie in the dark
2. Long Hot baths, accompanied by some good mags and catelogs
3.Coffee
4.Vanilla Cream Diet Cokes from 82nd St. Cafe (Thank you for today my sweet Shauna)
5. Getting my hair done
6. Getting a one hour massage
7. Shopping in China Town
8. Harolds
9. Marshalls
10. Decorating for the Fall Season
11. Laying out by the pool in the summer
12. Walking with Trent on tournaments, his especially but his team's too
13. Sister's laugh
14. T-Y's random hugs, smile, and freckles
15.Going to concerts with Trent
16. SUSHI!
17. Hobby Lobby sales
18. The occasional more rare these days trip to Sam Moon
19. Out of town get-aways with my man
20. Snuggling my T-rent and kiddoes for Sunday afternoon naps
21. Eating lunch at Antique Mall Tea Rooms
22. BooBoos in Arlington
23. Rubbing noses (Eskimo Kisses) with my children
24. Watching/Listening to them play together when they don't know I am there
25. S'mores
26. Re-runs of Frasier, still make me laugh out loud
27. Jimmy Stewart, my all time favorite actor
28. Fort Worth
29. Forever 21
30. The babydoll section in FAO Schwarz
31. Going to the movies
32. Holding a newborn baby and hearing their little sounds close to your ear
33. The way my kids smell after a bath
34. English Toffee and Creme Brulee' (Lindt Chocolate)-with a Diet coke of course!


What are some of yours?

Illness

Well a lot has happened since that last post, my sleeping girl did not sleep last night and after many a phone call to see the pediatrician we got in and found out she has RSV! Ty has allergies too. She is on a medi and hopefully won't have to go to the nebulizer. Poor thing. Man, I can't wait til Dad gets back tonight. He will be super busy this week but at least I will have a shoulder for the night time! Say some prayers for my baby girl. We have all had something or another since OCTOBER!!! Will the sickness ever end?! I hope we are in for some great months in the spring or even maybe summer!

Start of a new week

I just have the best kids in the world. I know every mother thinks that but man I really do feel blessed. I started getting some sort of tight throat the other night which has gotten a lot worse and accompanied with some body aches. The kiddoes could not be more accomadating. They have been so loving and sweet and happy to just do their own thing, knock on wood! At the moment they are once again watching spiderman with suckers in their mouths in complete contentment!
I absolutely hate being sick on Sundays. We had to miss a lot in December due to my kids or hubby being sick and were finally getting back on track. Last week was like a homecoming! I get excited about going to hear our preacher, and truely have a sense of church 'family' at G.L. and in our class. I am bummed to miss. I just have no energy and had little sleep so it would not have been one that I was mentally prepared for. My little shorties are such a delight though and make being sick not so bad. I think the fact that they are now both at an age where they are not SO dependant on me helps but they really do have caring personalities.
Please pray that we do not get a call for a showing within the next day anyway! The house is okay but my laundry is overflowing and I am trying to drag myself to do a few loads. I had this big plan to be so productive in many ways this weekend! I wanted to paint the sweet little cabinet that my friend Courtney gave me to match in O's room. I want to do a harlequin pattern on the doors and the rest plain with glass knobs. Great weekend to have the windows open to do so. Oh well.
We did have a good time before this truely set in yesterday morning at the Jumping Jungle to celebrate a sweet and special friend. We had never been to that one before and they both VERY much enjoyed it. We will definately have to return. I wish I would have looked more into it for Ty's birthday, but maybe next year. He ended up having a family party at Chuck E. Cheese b/c it was going to be such an expense to have very many friends with their package deal. I should have thought that through a little more, it ended up being even more on our own with half the people! Way to go mom. Winter birthdays pose a problem in the respect that you are a little more limited in your location of festivities especially if your home does not accomodate many people. Being the weird weather mecca this did come to our advantage on O's birthday in November when it reached over 80 degrees! We are having spring here today but soon to experience the joy of winter again Wed- Fri with highs in the low 30s! WHAT IN THE WORLD?! I love this town for various reasons but not for the consistency in weather, or the drivers for that matter.
Anyhoo... thanks for listening to my rantings if you have held on this long (Dad). It feels nice to be in a chair instead of laying in my bed for a little while anyway! A warm shower and warm cup of coffee have helped, its just the standing and walking around that sort of get me! Hopefully this will be gone before I know it. Its hard to understand that I would get anything with the fact that I am constantly washing my hands and do not have tonsils anymore!!! Pure craziness I tell ya.

Not a baby anymore....

Olivia's bed and bedding arrived. Last night was her first full night in it without trying to escape. She did great. I am in the process of making a top-quilt with the same floral fabric as the neckroll seen in the pic (previously a section of her bumper), and an additional pillow sham to go behind the gingham one which will tie together the color-scheme I have going on. I also am adding trim to the bedskirt which I will not put on until the bed-rails come off. I learned my lesson after Ty's was pretty much destroyed from it. The canopy that she pulled out of the ceiling over a year ago has returned and she knows not to touch it now. She calls it her princess bed. I still can't believe she is in a real bed. She is just growing and changing a lot lately. I guess this is a very pivotal age (26 mo.) The first pic is her last night in a crib. Not a baby any more!

Well the new year has begun and so has the routine, along with a few changes. I am now with four and five year olds and work from 12-3 M-Th. Its been a really nice change. I love the kids and its great to have my mornings free to get my work done at home and run errands and such. I have had a few breakfasts and coffees with friends and its nice to have un-interuppted discussion as well! My kids still go 9-3. This will especially be nice as Trent begins to travel again and with our house being on the market again. Oh joy, let the showings begin! Yeah, not so thrilled with that part, I can't believe its been a year since we made the decision to sell and started this whole process. God obviously has a plan and a time-frame that is different from ours, but we will let him take control of that. We actually had a lot of traffic during the holidays, which was especially fun (can you hear the sarcasm?) but nothing panned out.

Blogging Extravaganza Explanation!

Frist off, this picture is of Olivia enjoying, you can guess what, on the way home! There is a reason I don't buy them on a regular basis!

Anyway, I of course have done all this backwards. I tried to do things in order from what they happened over the past two weeks.... so scroll down to The Nutcracker post to begin and work your way back here.

Continuing on....

We made it back safely and the business is just now slowing down. On the way back we got a call for a showing on our home for the next morning. I was less than thrilled. We have not had one call in over a month and the first one we get is for right when we get back in town! We left in a mad-dash on Christmas Eve and were so tired upon returning! Of course I stayed up late cleaning and got up to do the same. After they saw it we were off to an LCU game and got a callwhile were there that the couple wanted to bring their parents by right when we got home. Who knows, this has happened already more than once so we are not getting excited but instead by the fact that we can finally relax in our own home! It has now been up for a year. I am SO over it. I am confident that it will happen if and when it is supposed to and have resigned to the fact to make Olivia's room for the bigger girl she has become. Her bed was on our front porch when we got in and I ordered her bedding just last night so that is the next project! We look forward to some time together this next week before Trent's season begins. This is the most I have ever posted in one day! Until next time.......

Pop and Cita's Christmas

We drove straight to my uncle James' house in Carrollton for some appetizers and fellowship and then went to Arlington. Christmas Day the extended family came to my parents house and we had a WONDERFUL lunch and opened gifts and watched the tube! We had a wonderful visit as always. We went to Aledo Wednesday to meet up with Trent's two uncles and their families and Thursday went out to our friends the Davis' in Coppell and were able to meet the newest member of their family, Miss Ellie Claire. The next morning we were in an urgent care center where we found out Trent has strep! Now every member of our family has been sick within a few weeks time! He got a shot and then we were back to my parents to pack up and head back!

Road Trip!

Next we headed out for The Metroplex!!! Getting out of town was a bit of a challenge but once we were on the road things went rather smoothly. The kids watched movies the whole way and Trent and I listened to music and had some nice conversation! I love road trips for that very reason.

Our little family Christmas

We got home pretty late that night from Meme and G's so we slept in a little big Monday and then had our own family Christmas which was actually Christmas Eve. Ty got more spiderman type things and Olivia got her "O" charm for her bracelet and they both got all kinds of neat little things in their stocking. Olivia got her first "lipstick" which is really a lipsmacker without color of course! She has enjoyed it greatly! We are only doing two wrapped gifts in our family and stockings and that is it! Trent and I have decided we don't want the focus to be gifts so we are downplaying this part as much as possible. We enjoyed our short time together with our own little family very much. Then the packing began for our next Christmas!

Meme and G's Christmas

We celebrated the Sunday before after early service. We all went out and had brunch and then lots of festivities and later a WONDERFUL dinner. It was almost comical how many trips back to the house I had to make before actually starting the celebrations, well almost... I was all good by the time I stopped for a diet coke and then was sitting by G's fire enjoying some unbelievable food! The kids all had such a great time together and I am so thankful that we all live near one another and they can grow up together knowing each other so well-something I wish I had as a kid, well even as an adult actually! What a blessing it is to be their aunt.

The Nutcracker

Precious pics from our night at the Nutcracker! These kids had a great time together, and so did the big ones!

Little Ty Man is FOUR!

Wow. Wasn't he just in a crib?! It is just going way too fast. Michael Ty Phillips is turning into such a sweet big boy! He is so endearing toward others and incredibly thoughtful for his four short years! Our friends the Fredericks and the Kemps invited us to go to The Nutcracker the other night. Olivia is still a little young and we knew it was a great possibility that she would not be able to sit through it. I was SO excited at the idea of spending a night out alone with him, something I don't get to do real often. I told Ty he was special so just Mommy was going to take him on a date. His response was, "Mommy... Olivia is special too- she should come with us." Everytime someone asks him to do something, go somewhere, or if he would like to have something, he insists that Olivia be included without being encouraged to do so! He often gives me a hug for no imparticular reason, and tells me how much he loves me ALL THE TIME! His curiosity has peaked and he is asking lots of questions about everything. He is in a constant state of wonderment. He loves to look at the moon at night, the sunsets (which by the way are unbeatable out here) and most recently how he got here. For now we are going with God made him and put him in his Mommy's tummy. His Aunt Emmy is pregnant with two baby girls and he is just amazed by it.

I absolutely love how he asks me to 'nuggle' and to put his head on my neck (my chin on his head). I love hearing his precious prayers at night and how he wants to make good choices. We are not "Love and Logic" parents so this one he has done on his own! I love how he runs to Olivia when she is crying for being hurt or in trouble. He tries to sit in 'the spot' with her to make it easier on her but we kick him out pretty quick. He is truely upset when we are at a restraunt and she has to be taken to the restroom for other reasons than rest. He has a strong connection with older people and is very attached to his 'great-grandparents'. He askes about his Paw Paw, my maternal grandfather who lives in Dallas and we don't get to see all that often. He tells me he misses him frequently and asks when we will see him again.

His favorite color is still green. He is currently obsessed with spiderman and was overjoyed with his cake this year! He still wears his Halloween costume on an almost daily basis when we get home from school. He spins webs wherever we go and is learning when the appropriate time is. His favorite Bible story is Jonah and the whale. Still lovin hotdogs and all fruit. He loves to pick out his own clothes and dress himself and does quite a good job at that. Also a little particular about his hair already, I think we all know where he gets that and its not from me! His favorite song on the radio is "I am Yours" but especially fond of the verse, "You make everything glorious..."

This little man is such an incredible example to me. I could go on and on. I wish everyone reading this could know him and experience his sweet spirit and see God moving in him and through him. I pray that He protect him and watch over him every day and that he wake up safe and healthy every morning. I pray that He continue to place people in his life that will forever keep him accountable and encourage him in his walk. Ty is so precious to me and I feel honored to be his mother. I pray that I can be the parent he needs me to be in all situations and can mold him for The Lord. Look out world, he is going to do great things... I just know it!