Saturday, December 29, 2007

Our little family Christmas






















We got home pretty late that night from Meme and G's so we slept in a little big Monday and then had our own family Christmas which was actually Christmas Eve. Ty got more spiderman type things and Olivia got her "O" charm for her bracelet and they both got all kinds of neat little things in their stocking. Olivia got her first "lipstick" which is really a lipsmacker without color of course! She has enjoyed it greatly! We are only doing two wrapped gifts in our family and stockings and that is it! Trent and I have decided we don't want the focus to be gifts so we are downplaying this part as much as possible. We enjoyed our short time together with our own little family very much. Then the packing began for our next Christmas!






Meme and G's Christmas





































We celebrated the Sunday before after early service. We all went out and had brunch and then lots of festivities and later a WONDERFUL dinner. It was almost comical how many trips back to the house I had to make before actually starting the celebrations, well almost... I was all good by the time I stopped for a diet coke and then was sitting by G's fire enjoying some unbelievable food! The kids all had such a great time together and I am so thankful that we all live near one another and they can grow up together knowing each other so well-something I wish I had as a kid, well even as an adult actually! What a blessing it is to be their aunt.

The Nutcracker







Precious pics from our night at the Nutcracker! These kids had a great time together, and so did the big ones!

Monday, December 17, 2007

Little Ty Man is FOUR!




























Wow. Wasn't he just in a crib?! It is just going way too fast. Michael Ty Phillips is turning into such a sweet big boy! He is so endearing toward others and incredibly thoughtful for his four short years! Our friends the Fredericks and the Kemps invited us to go to The Nutcracker the other night. Olivia is still a little young and we knew it was a great possibility that she would not be able to sit through it. I was SO excited at the idea of spending a night out alone with him, something I don't get to do real often. I told Ty he was special so just Mommy was going to take him on a date. His response was, "Mommy... Olivia is special too- she should come with us." Everytime someone asks him to do something, go somewhere, or if he would like to have something, he insists that Olivia be included without being encouraged to do so! He often gives me a hug for no imparticular reason, and tells me how much he loves me ALL THE TIME! His curiosity has peaked and he is asking lots of questions about everything. He is in a constant state of wonderment. He loves to look at the moon at night, the sunsets (which by the way are unbeatable out here) and most recently how he got here. For now we are going with God made him and put him in his Mommy's tummy. His Aunt Emmy is pregnant with two baby girls and he is just amazed by it.

I absolutely love how he asks me to 'nuggle' and to put his head on my neck (my chin on his head). I love hearing his precious prayers at night and how he wants to make good choices. We are not "Love and Logic" parents so this one he has done on his own! I love how he runs to Olivia when she is crying for being hurt or in trouble. He tries to sit in 'the spot' with her to make it easier on her but we kick him out pretty quick. He is truely upset when we are at a restraunt and she has to be taken to the restroom for other reasons than rest. He has a strong connection with older people and is very attached to his 'great-grandparents'. He askes about his Paw Paw, my maternal grandfather who lives in Dallas and we don't get to see all that often. He tells me he misses him frequently and asks when we will see him again.

His favorite color is still green. He is currently obsessed with spiderman and was overjoyed with his cake this year! He still wears his Halloween costume on an almost daily basis when we get home from school. He spins webs wherever we go and is learning when the appropriate time is. His favorite Bible story is Jonah and the whale. Still lovin hotdogs and all fruit. He loves to pick out his own clothes and dress himself and does quite a good job at that. Also a little particular about his hair already, I think we all know where he gets that and its not from me! His favorite song on the radio is "I am Yours" but especially fond of the verse, "You make everything glorious..."

This little man is such an incredible example to me. I could go on and on. I wish everyone reading this could know him and experience his sweet spirit and see God moving in him and through him. I pray that He protect him and watch over him every day and that he wake up safe and healthy every morning. I pray that He continue to place people in his life that will forever keep him accountable and encourage him in his walk. Ty is so precious to me and I feel honored to be his mother. I pray that I can be the parent he needs me to be in all situations and can mold him for The Lord. Look out world, he is going to do great things... I just know it!

Monday, December 10, 2007

The Big Apple





The View from our hotel room, 39th & 3rd
This is a sculpture that stood at TWTC and was taken from the wreckage, there is a flame at the bottom that burns constantly in remeberance of the lives lost that day





THE Tree!







Imerial Pizza.. yummmm






Radio City, The Rockettes (KayEllen -mil, Tina-sil, Hannah-niece, Tamara-sil, and yours truely)




Ride on the ferry









In case you can't read, Grand Central Station













The famous MAP!








Tavern On The Green













Ashleigh, Me, and Shauna @ TOG




I had the huge blessing of being asked to accompany my Mother-in-law and Sisters-in-law, and oldest Niece to the City that never sleeps these past five days. I have always wanted to go and especially at Christmas time. What a gift?!!! I felt like I was five again the entire time! Just incredible.


We left last Thursday and after we checked in to our hotel we started out for Rockefeller Plaza to see my most anticipated part of the trip, the tree! On the way we stopped at Imperial Pizza which was an authentic Italian Joint! There was a picture inside showing a shot from the film, The Godfather. It was WONDERFUL pizza! Then we made it to the tree...It was quite a site! Bigger than I imagined and beautiful! We went down and saw the ice-skaters and then ducked in several shops. TWO of my ALL TIME favorites, H&M, and Forever 21!!! (Thanks for the tip last year Jodi ;) ) Seeing the department store windows for Christmas was pretty beautiful and just incredible!


The next day we headed out to the subway, which was a different experience every time we rode thanks to the very entertaining people that were along with us. I mean truly entertaining and wanted to be paid for it! There was a group of VERY young boys on one of them.....it was really quite sad. I also kept thinking I just don't see how people with small people do it there. We saw alot of strollers with their little ones bundled up tight! It was SUPER cold the entire time. I felt so sorry for those kids. I tried to imagine myself with mykids there and then noticed, you didn't see alot of people with more than one child which would definately make it more doable! We mostly rode the subway because we never even saw an empty cab! The last day we rode, we were eating in a place where one of the drivers was sitting next to us and overheard a message that a little four year old boy had been separated from his parents and a description to be looking out for. All I could see was Ty lost and afraid! It just broke my heart and I have not stopped thinking about him since. I pray that they found each other!


On a brighter note, we did WAY TOO MUCH SHOPPING! I almost did not get it all back! China town was a complete shopping high. I think my favorite store was FAO Shwarz though! I couldn't get myself away from the Madame Alexander dolls, that thanks to Meme my daughter is collecting, and then the baby section!!! I wanted a doll for myself! They have this little nursery set up where the dolls are behind glass and in beds just like the hospital, the salesperson is dresssed as a nurse and the little girls come pick out their baby. They get it out of the bed and prepare it for its new mother and then she gets to sit and rock it in a little chair!!! TOO PRECIOUS! Oh how I would love to take Olivia to do that someday! I had a ball in there.

I think the highlight of our trip was a tie between Tavern On The Green and seeing the

Christmas show of the Rockettes. Truly amazing, both of them. The fun part of our eating venture was getting to meet up with my sweet friends Shauna and Ashleigh who were also there on an all girls family trip! I love them both to death and how fun to get to experience some of New York with them! Ashleigh's mother, and Shauna's MIL is also a close friend of my MIL so it was a blast for all! We also went to the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island, Wall Street, Macy's, Time Square, Grand Central Station, and where the World Trade Center towers once stood. Very somber and sobering at the same time.


I am way blessed to have such fun Sisters-in-laws, beautiful niece who is just as beautiful inside- trust me you just can't know- and INCREDIBLY WONDERFUL AND GIVING Mother-in-law! We had so much fun just laughing together and I truely enjoyed every minute of each of them. Tamara kept us on track and guided us in the right direction, we could not have made it without her and I still don't know how she figured it all out! You know, I just had no idea what to expect of this city. I just pictured what I had seen on television and movies. It was really different in person and the people were un-believably nice and helpful!!! I don't know where they got a badr reputation but everyone I even just came in contact with was pleasant and smiling! I hope to be able to go again some day!


We made it back and our husbands made it okay without us taking care of our children. I had too much fun but have to admit I was ready to kiss my babies! The day I returned my first baby turned FOUR! I just can't believe it. I will post about that next. I am glad to be home and soak him and sister and Dad up for all their worth!
























Tuesday, December 04, 2007

Its Beginning to look a lot like Christmas....





















Like the B family, we have more than one tree in our family as well. First we have Ty's "cowboy" tree.
Next Olivia's "frilly" tree.














Next our family tree in our living room. Notice there is no tree-skirt! Mine has vanished since last year so I suspect I will be making my way to Hobby Lobby at some point tomorrow to purchase one that is half-off! I am really sad! I LOVED my old one. It was a red velvet with a green velvet wide trim :(
The ornaments.... I love anything old or that looks old as a rule throughout my life and especially on the tree! My mother has given us the most to trim this tree but Ty and Olivia have added with some sweet ones as well ;)
My Dining room table is set with Lenox Holiday china which are a yearly gift from my mother-in-law. Our entry is graced with a precious simple pewter and rustic manger scene. I wrote about this last year when I had to replace Joseph's head to his body and enjoy it long after Christmas.


Next our stockings which are hung by the chimney with care. My nutcracker collection also resides here. Thank you Mother for blessing my collection with a new member each year! We enjoy a fire almost everynight and early morning because although the highs have often reached the mid 70's the lows are low 30's in this town!








Next my breakfast area with one small table tree, also a thank you to my mother for her incredible giving heart!




















I added a "Kitchen" tree to my window sill last year. I found some little mugs that are quite useful little "gifts" to adorn the bottom!
These things help us to get into the holidays at our house. We have the tradition of opening one gift Christmas Eve and the rest in the morning. My grandfather usually reads the Christmas Story out of the Bible that night at my parents house where we enjoy fun little appetizers and treats. I do not watch Dr. Phil very often if ever but a few years ago I purchased his book, "Family First," where he discusses how important having famiy traditions are. He shared several but one that I have incorporated into our family is taking a video each year of the kids telling what they would like for Christmas each year as well and more importantly, what Christmas means to them each year. This may also include things they feel thankful for and blessed by. As my children get older and the years that we happen to be in our own home I would like to start a Christmas breakfast in our family followed by a time of study and prayer focusing on the birth of Christ which would have to be age appropriate of course.
Thanks for letting me be a part of this year's bloggy Holiday Happenings. If you have not already stop by and visit the host herself at :http://talkinghairdryer.blogspot.com/2007/12/holiday-happenings-2007.html

Saturday, November 24, 2007

The road to recovery

Well, we are all on the mend. My third trip to the doctor turned out to be the charm after another more powerful 'miracle' shot, new antibiotic and cough/decongestant/antihistamine syrum and my voice is slowly returning-just not quite yet! Olivia seems to be pretty much cleared up but is still on her anti-biotic for her terrible ears and Ty is still pretty bumpy. He complains a lot of his mouth and gums hurting and his hands and feet don't look too great. He should be clear in another day or so if he goes like his sister.

We woke up to snow Thanksgiving Day and it has snowed each night since. We had a rather lonely Thanksgiving- about the only one I can ever remember not really celebrating. We started to but then returned home for various reasons. We have been in the house the majority of the holiday weekend with the exception of a lunch outing yesterday and trip through the Starbucks drive-through, oh and I ran in Wal-mart for milk and such, big fun there! I put up our tree yesterday along with some other house decorations but have yet to actually decorate the tree! We stayed in again today watching the tube and made some beans and rice along with hot sausage from the Roberts. I can't wait to taste it!

Although the holidays did not go quite as planned, it has been nice to just be together as our own little individual family being lazy and not feeling guilty for doing so! I started out pretty sad about not having Thanksgiving dinner, its my favorite time of the year. I was quite upset about everyone turning from fall one day and jumping right into Christmas the next. Then I watched some holiday HGTV and slowly decided to give in myself. I have really enjoyed just holding my baby girl while she sleeps for naps and just sitting with Ty running my hands through his crazy curly hair. Trent and I have taken full advantage of this snuggle weather too so I am thankful for these things! Eventually I will be thankful for my health again too. God has truly blessed us with so much. I was also not really happy to be in this house for another Christmas, thinking it surely would have sold by now. I prayed for contentment and He gave it to me. Now I just look around feeling so grateful-amazing, how He can change your heart when you ask. I think the materialistic side of Christmas always kinda gets me down-but I choose not to focus on that and hopefully will raise my children not to do so as well. I am grateful to my parents for not putting emphasis on presents. As a parent I am all the more thankful for their outlook on many things.

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

FYI

What is hand, foot, and mouth disease?
Hand, foot, and mouth disease (HFMD) is a common illness of infants and children. It is characterized by fever, sores in the mouth, and a rash with blisters. HFMD begins with a mild fever, poor appetite, malaise ("feeling sick"), and frequently a sore throat. One or 2 days after the fever begins, painful sores develop in the mouth. They begin as small red spots that blister and then often become ulcers. They are usually located on the tongue, gums, and inside of the cheeks. The skin rash develops over 1 to 2 days with flat or raised red spots, some with blisters. The rash does not itch, and it is usually located on the palms of the hands and soles of the feet. It may also appear on the buttocks. A person with HFMD may have only the rash or the mouth ulcers.
Is HFMD the same as foot-and-mouth disease?
No. HFMD is often confused with foot-and-mouth disease of cattle, sheep, and swine. Although the names are similar, the two diseases are not related at all and are caused by different viruses. For information on foot-and-mouth disease, please visit the web site of the US Department of Agriculture.
What causes HFMD?
Viruses from the group called enteroviruses cause HFMD. The most common cause is coxsackievirus A16; sometimes, HFMD is caused by enterovirus 71 or other enteroviruses. The enterovirus group includes polioviruses, coxsackieviruses, echoviruses and other enteroviruses.
Is HFMD serious?
Usually not. HFMD caused by coxsackievirus A16 infection is a mild disease and nearly all patients recover without medical treatment in 7 to 10 days. Complications are uncommon. Rarely, the patient with coxsackievirus A16 infection may also develop "aseptic" or viral meningitis, in which the person has fever, headache, stiff neck, or back pain, and may need to be hospitalized for a few days. Another cause of HFMD, EV71 may also cause viral meningitis and, rarely, more serious diseases, such as encephalitis, or a poliomyelitis-like paralysis. EV71 encephalitis may be fatal. Cases of fatal encephalitis occurred during outbreaks of HFMD in Malaysia in 1997 and in Taiwan in 1998.
Is HFMD contagious?
Yes, HFMD is moderately contagious. Infection is spread from person to person by direct contact with nose and throat discharges, saliva, fluid from blisters, or the stool of infected persons. A person is most contagious during the first week of the illness. HFMD is not transmitted to or from pets or other animals.
How soon will someone become ill after getting infected? The usual period from infection to onset of symptoms ("incubation period") is 3 to 7 days. Fever is often the first symptom of HFMD.
Who is at risk for HFMD?
HFMD occurs mainly in children under 10 years old, but may also occur in adults too. Everyone is at risk of infection, but not everyone who is infected becomes ill. Infants, children, and adolescents are more likely to be susceptible to infection and illness from these viruses, because they are less likely than adults to have antibodies and be immune from previous exposures to them. Infection results in immunity to the specific virus, but a second episode may occur following infection with a different member of the enterovirus group.
What are the risks to pregnant women exposed to children with HFMD?Because enteroviruses, including those causing HFMD, are very common, pregnant women are frequently exposed to them, especially during summer and fall months. As for any other adults, the risk of infection is higher for pregnant women who do not have antibodies from earlier exposures to these viruses, and who are exposed to young children - the primary spreaders of enteroviruses.Most enterovirus infections during pregnancy cause mild or no illness in the mother. Although the available information is limited, currently there is no clear evidence that maternal enteroviral infection causes adverse outcomes of pregnancy such as abortion, stillbirth, or congenital defects. However, mothers infected shortly before delivery may pass the virus to the newborn. Babies born to mothers who have symptoms of enteroviral illness around the time of delivery are more likely to be infected. Most newborns infected with an enterovirus have mild illness, but, in rare cases, they may develop an overwhelming infection of many organs, including liver and heart, and die from the infection. The risk of this severe illness in newborns is higher during the first two weeks of life.Strict adherence to generally recommended good hygienic practices by the pregnant woman (see "Can HFMD be prevented?" below) may help to decrease the risk of infection during pregnancy and around the time of delivery.
When and where does HFMD occur?
Individual cases and outbreaks of HFMD occur worldwide, more frequently in summer and early autumn. In the recent past, major outbreaks of HFMD attributable to enterovirus 71 have been reported in some South East Asian countries (Malaysia, 1997; Taiwan, 1998).
How is HFMD diagnosed?
HFMD is one of many infections that result in mouth sores. Another common cause is oral herpesvirus infection, which produces an inflammation of the mouth and gums (sometimes called stomatitis). Usually, the physician can distinguish between HFMD and other causes of mouth sores based on the age of the patient, the pattern of symptoms reported by the patient or parent, and the appearance of the rash and sores on examination. A throat swab or stool specimen may be sent to a laboratory to determine which enterovirus caused the illness. Since the testing often takes 2 to 4 weeks to obtain a final answer, the physician usually does not order these tests.
How is HFMD treated?
No specific treatment is available for this or other enterovirus infections. Symptomatic treatment is given to provide relief from fever, aches, or pain from the mouth ulcers.
Can HFMD be prevented?
Specific prevention for HFMD or other non-polio enterovirus infections is not available, but the risk of infection can be lowered by good hygienic practices. Preventive measures include frequent handwashing, especially after diaper changes (see "Handwashing" in: An Ounce of Prevention: Keeps the Germs Away), cleaning of contaminated surfaces and soiled items first with soap and water, and then disinfecting them by diluted solution of chlorine-containing bleach (made by mixing approximately ¼ cup of bleach with 1 gallon of water. (See more about cleaning and disinfecting in general in CDC's Prevention Resources). Avoidance of close contact (kissing, hugging, sharing utensils, etc.) with children with HFMD may also help to reduce of the risk of infection to caregivers.HMFD in the childcare settingHFMD outbreaks in child care facilities occur most often in the summer and fall months, and usually coincide with an increased number of cases in the community.
CDC has no specific recommendations regarding the exclusion of children with HFMD from child care programs, schools, or other group settings. Children are often excluded from group settings during the first few days of the illness, which may reduce the spread of infection, but will not completely interrupt it. Exclusion of ill persons may not prevent additional cases since the virus may be excreted for weeks after the symptoms have disappeared. Also, some persons excreting the virus, including most adults, may have no symptoms. Some benefit may be gained, however, by excluding children who have blisters in their mouths and drool or who have weeping lesions on their hands.
If an outbreak occurs in the child care setting:
Make sure that all children and adults use good handwashing technique, especially after diaper changes.
Thoroughly wash and disinfect contaminated items and surfaces using diluted solution of chlorine-containing bleach.
See the section “Can HFMD be prevented?” to learn more about hygienic practices which may be helpful in preventing HFMD transmission.

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

It continues...

Well today at noon we were sent home from school under suspicion of dots all over Olivia. They suggested I take Ty too since he had been exposed and just to play it safe. So we were able to get an afternoon appt. and found out that they both have 'Hand, Foot, and Mouth' disease. She looked at Olivia's ears and commented, "They are both beyond HORRIBLEY infected!" The girl has never been fussy, feverish, nothing! We all have had congestion but it ended up in her ears. She took a look at Ty's just to see and sure enough his right ear was infected as well but not real bad. I was not familiar with Hand Foot and Mouth disease. They are little blisters on the palms, bottom of feet and of course in the mouth and down the throat! She said its pretty painful and VERY contagious! So now we are all on antibiotics! Please say some prayers for these lil shorties!

Saturday, November 17, 2007

Phillips Infermory! (sp?)

We need some prayers here at our house for sickness over the past month. Ty stayed home twice last week with pink eye and was super congested and had a cough to go along with it. Sister woke up with it in her beautiful long lashes this morning :( Their momma has had a sinus infection for the past three weeks. First went to the doctor the day before Halloween to gear up for treat night. I got the 'miracle' shot and a z-pak. Did absolutely nothing. Called back three days later only to be prescribed a series of steirods and the particularly useless......Flonase. Here I am a week after that feeling again like I did the first day of it. I have only missed a half day of school for me and one to stay with Ty. I really can't be missing much. Please say some prayers for our little family that we get through all of this before the holidays! I would really like to be able to taste our turkey dinner next week!

On a brighter note, Trent and I were able to go on a much needed date last night!! Four of the girls on the golf team came over and stayed with our lil ones and we headed out for a kidless night! We first stopped by our friends' the Roberts' to celebrate their son Boston's first birthday! He is too precious of a little boy. They did a Boston Red Sox party and did it well! They even gave us some peanuts and crackerjacks to enjoy during our movie later! Then we went to a great mexican restraunt here, Ruby Tequila's. They have the best Tortilla Soup EVER!!!! Its super spicy but still did not enable me to breathe :( Then we went to see 'American Gangster'. Excellent movie!! We had a really nice time despite my kleenex and sniffing! We are having to miss another dear friends little party this morning due to Olivia's eyes. Hopefully they will be better for church tomorrow. The good news is we already have drops from Ty! Well I am off to enjoy some incredible graham cracker cinn. coffee that my sweet friend Denise brought me last week! Enjoy your weekend!

Monday, November 12, 2007

Olivia Lane is TWO YEARS OLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





























And no, I can't believe it. She talks very clearly and says everything now. She loves to give hugs and kisses. Still quite the sleeper. She LOVES babies, especially live ones but enjoys her pretend ones quite a bit. I am keeping her in the crib until she tries to get out or we move, which ever comes first. I am betting on her getting out, however she never wakes up on her own so she may be in it til she is three!!!! Just kiddding. I will give in eventually. All these stages are the last for me. I do not desire to be pregnant or have another baby- but I just wish I could hold on to the moments and keep them fresh in my mind from these two precious little people. They are fading way too fast! I love how they play so well together and truely do love each other, such great little friends they are. It is especially neat to watch this relationship to me because I do not have siblings. Just really special. She is possessive of Ty. She tells him she loves him frequently and gives him random hugs. She always runs to him first when in trouble or hurt! She has a special dog that she sleeps with everynight and refers to all blankets as 'night nights'! She loves to prentend cook. Also quite the little eater! She wakes up by first asking for Ty, next its I am hungry. Always requests a 'fuffin' and occassionally oatmeal!

Olivia's birthday was officially Sunday, was and always will be on Veterans Day! So nice for her someday, she will most likely always be off for her birthday! I remember that day so clearly and it just can't be two years ago. She recieved many nice things for her birthday. My parents were able to be here too which made it especially nice. She has a starter charm bracelet from Mommy and Daddy who are adding an appropriate charm for each year. This year she gets one with her full name and birthday on it. The actual bracelet is for the first year. I have one from growing up and am STILL adding to it! Its very special to me. I also have my grandmother's. It was a beautiful day and unseasonably warm which made for great fun outside! She shared cupcakes and treat sacks with her little class today.

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

TREAT NIGHT




























Boy did Spider Man and Itsy Bitsy spider have fun at Treat Night! After we made our way through it all we sat and visited and Olivia sat and ate candy for an hour! That girl can put it away! Ty was trying to climb walls and spit webs at everyone. We had a great time getting to enjoy the season with Marli and Carson, two of our favorite people, and well of course their parents! TOO FUN!